So I know it's been quite some time since I've posted, but it's been kind of crazy. First we were dealing with Derek's grandfather's cancer, then my brother-in-law (age 36) passed away, then Derek's grandma was in the hospital, and then Derek had surgery to remove the bone tumor in his pinky. Thanks everyone for your thoughts and prayers during this time!
Derek's grandfather is up and down with his health still. He's better for a few days and then he's down for a few days. My sister-in-law and her son are doing a little better and have been dealing with the loss of Jason. Andrea is involved in some young widow groups and has been attending a church regularly with one of her friends. Derek's grandma is doing better, but she is still having trouble with her balance and thus she has fallen several times. I certainly hope that she doesn't seriously injure herself. It's been bumps and bruising so far and I hope that it doesn't get worse than that. Lastly, Derek's surgery on his pinky went very well! It was quite amusing actually:)
Derek is very (I mean VERY) sensitive to drugs....in that I mean Tylenol makes him a little loopy and tired! So prior to surgery when they were prepping him they were only supposed to make him be semi-sedated. Well......he was out cold! He woke up and didn't know anything had happened. Then his arm was numb for about 8-10 hours. It was like having a giant club that he couldn't control! Ha! When he started to regain feeling in his arm he started popping the pain pills. This is where it got interesting. He was so silly! As most of you know, Derek doesn't drink, but when he was taking his pain pills it was as if he was drunk. No inhibitions whatsoever! He said some of the funniest things. Ha! All in all, the surgery went well and he'll go back in 2 weeks for his final follow up appointment and he won't have to wear his brace anymore. Yay! Meanwhile he is still doing all sorts of things that he's really not supposed to. Typical guy I guess! (Oh....and the results of the tumor came back as benign! Praise the Lord!)
On to the big secret......

Okay......well not any more! (And I know there has been much speculation from those around me.....Abby......Lindsy......) After 3 long months of trying to contain our news we have successfully made it through our first trimester! Praise the Lord! We have been so excited and have been trying not to spill the info until making through 13 weeks. Thankfully I haven't really had any symptoms other than being really tired! No nausea or vomitting or any other typical symptoms! So far we have been blessed and it has all gone very well! Yesterday was my latest appointment and I heard the heart beat! It was 130-140 beats per minute and my doctor said that if I believed old wives tales that it means it is a boy! I won't hold to it, but I can't wait until 20 weeks when we will be able to find out what the sex is. I would be perfectly happy waiting until delivery to know but Derek really wants to know before hand. I guess it will make it easier for preparing and shopping, but I really like surprises! We're still trying to decide how we're going to share the news with D's family but we have a few ideas up our sleeves. My parents will find out on Tuesday when my mom gets her mother's day card! She'll be soooooo excited! I sent her a grandmother card with a picture of the sonogram from week nine (which is the same as the one you see here.....I know it's not much, but it's our little kidney bean:) Ha!). She won't know what to do!
I really will try to give updates, but as you all know by now.....I'm horrible at this!